“Make it a joy rather than an anxiety”
What follows is some information about some of the many and varied things you might like to think about for your wedding. Planning a wedding can be daunting. I would highly recommend you savour every moment of the planning. Make it a joy rather than an anxiety.
Speak to as many suppliers and professionals as you can and before you know it you will really start to get a picture of what you want your wedding day to look like and how it will run!
Important note: I have included links to various suppliers. These are people that I have worked with and would be happy to recommend. That said, there are many many other excellent suppliers, so take your time and do your homework to find the people that are a great fit with you and your fiancée.
Finally, at the end of the guide is a checklist that you can use to keep track of your planning…
So, have a read through, enjoy the process and good luck!
Picking a wedding venue should be one of the first decisions to be made! These can range from Stately Homes to Tipis, Hotels to Halls, so there is enough diversity that you can pick somewhere that can really reflect your personalities and style. Once you have the ‘when and where’ booked, you can get started with the fun of organising everything else!
Here are some of the great venues I regularly exhibit at. (Click on the name to visit the venue’s website)
The wonderful thing about the entertainment at your wedding is that there are such a wide array of options to choose from. There is always something to tickle your fancy and suit your particular needs. And remember, your guests don’t just need entertaining in the evening…
Below a few ideas for you to keep in mind…
Having a Magician at your wedding offers so much more than just magic tricks. It’s an ice breaker. It’s the conversation starter. Simply put, it brings people together. I may be slightly biased (!) but a magician is possibly one of the best things you can book for your wedding!
Me! Andy Larmouth – www.andylarmouth.com
Music can be a great addition throughout the entirety of the day. Not only is it lovely to have some background music during your drinks reception or meal, string quartet, sax guy. Also, a live band or a DJ can be an amazing way to get the party of your evening reception really bouncing!
Samantha Durnan Music – www.samanthadurnanmusic.com
Mellow Moments – www.mellowmoments.me.uk
A Caricaturist is something a little different that not only gives you a lot of laughs on the day but also gives your guest a great memento to keep for the future!
Barrie James – https://www.barriejamesart.co.uk/
Photo Booths are becoming ever more popular nowadays, and a great addition giving somewhere for your guests to let loose and have some fun and you have your photos to keep as a fun keepsake!
Cards and Stationary
An amazing way to set the mood for the event before it is here can be your save the date cards and invites, if you are going for a formal and traditional wedding then formal invites are great however if your day is going to be more casual and relaxed this can be reflected in your stationary and can be a great way to set the expectations of your guests as well linking in with your colour theme on the day.
Having the same decorations and colours throughout all your wedding stationery including table plans and name cards is a lovely way to keep things uniform and really show off your and your partner’s personal styles.
Coochicoo Cards – www.coochicardcards.co.uk
Florists can be hugely integral to the look of your wedding. A wonderful way to see florist’s styles is to check out their social media or websites and seeing them exhibit at wedding fairs, here you can chat with them as well and they can advise you of the best flowers to go with your colour themes that will be in season and how to stick within your budget.
They can help you with top table decorations, bouquets or posies and button holes as well as table centrepieces.
The Enchanted Florist – www.theenchantedfloristdurham.co.uk
If flowers are not something you like as your centrepieces there are many other options available. Also, chair covers are a wonderful way of continuing your colour theme throughout the reception room as well as putting your own individual stamp on the venue.
The First Class Wedding Company – www.thefirstclassweddingco.com
Traditionally favours were sugared almonds given to wedding guests as a thank you for attending. However, more recently, favours have taken on a whole new lease of life. Ranging from personalised biscuits to miniature bottles of spirits to homemade jams and chutneys or bulbs or seeds for guests to take home and grow themselves, as well as little colouring packs and treats for any little guests you may have attended.
Whatever you choose can be another little way of showing off a few of your personalities and making your day just that little bit more special and memorable for your guests!
Dresses and Suits
The Dress is the most important thing to many brides and will be at the top of their lists and they will know exactly the dress they want before they have even seen it. Others will be looking at dresses without any idea what they want. Finding a boutique that understands both points of view and can cater to any bride is so important.
If you like to keep things all together, it’s even better to find somewhere that not only has bridal gowns but bridesmaid’s dresses and groomsmen’s suit hire.
Victoria Robson Bridal – www.victoriarobsonbridal.com
If you’re looking for something a little more bespoke for your groom or groomsmen check out Bakers Tailoring who also offer formal hire including evening wear.
Bakers Tailoring – www.bakerstailoring.com
So, there we go. I hope you have found this information useful! Below is a checklist of some of the things you might want to consider for your big day. Just scroll down a bit and click the link below to download the Checklist in PDF form.
Best of luck with the planning, and if I can be of any assistance, please get in touch!